Yesterday morning the September sun made the kitchen look so pretty, bathing it in pale golden light. I grabbed my phone and took a few photos, planning to write a blog post after Bill and I had been to the shop for a few bits and pieces. I've said so many times that I will show photos, but for whatever reason just haven't got round to it.
However, when we returned home we found the nutcase idiot woman next door had been up to her tricks again, hacking at the plant growing on the trellis on the fence and chucking it over in a pile. She manages to take Petty to a whole other level. I've never known anyone so miserable and spiteful as her.
On the 6th September I spent a good amount of time in the garden cutting back said plant, but of course it wasn't going to make her happy. It seems that whenever the husband goes out for the day she decides that she is perfectly entitled to take out any frustration or anger out on us. I don't blame him at all for going out and not taking her with him, he must need the break.
But he also needs to man up and tell her to stop behaving in this manner. I've had quiet words with him about it, and despite him saying 'we don't need to fall out' she is making it clear that she's doing things for exactly that to happen. It's happened. She has gone out of her way to cause trouble, not something you do if you like people is it? She is not someone we want anything to do with, best ignored at all times.
Now no plant grows along the fence and it looks as bland and dull as she does. She is a nasty piece of work. As we worked she came out to mutter and sweep up, then I watched as she chucked over the tiny amount of leaves that had fallen over back over the fence. That's what I mean about her level of pettiness. There were hardly any leaves as we were careful so if anything she should have been impressed at our care, but no. She's a moany misery guts. Anyone with a brain would leave it until the cutting back was complete to start sweeping up and just chuck it away, but she has to do it while we're working, chuck it into our garden and then run into her house quickly because she's a coward as most bullies are. It's gone beyond being mildly annoying, this woman is attacking us and our home, and it has to stop. We have made sure that no plants, trees, roses or anything touch their fence or drape over. Everything is cut and away from the fence, nothing even touches it so she would need to lean over into our garden in order to cut anything. She has no need or right to do that, and no excuse at all to cut anything or throw anything else over the fence. But it's Autumn, and no doubt it'll be our fault when the leaves fall from the trees on the park behind us. I'm joking (sort of) but I'm not laughing. She's heartily pissed me off now and I've had enough. We ignore her, we don't engage, we want nothing to do with her, but as with all bullies looking for attention she carries on with stupid little petty acts. Even though we totally ignore her and just make changes to put her stop to her idiocy.
I wonder how she'd feel if one day I decided that after working in the garden I decided to dump all the crap over her fence for no reason, as she did. I have a feeling she wouldn't like that very much. I've got no doubt at all that she has mental issues, her behaviour is far from normal and she needs some help. No, I'm not sympathetic to her, she's vile and I've had enough.
I've taken advice and will act on it if she does anything else. Which she will, as tomorrow Project 3 begins, and for whatever reason, she seems to think that anything we do has to be approved by her. Not her business, she needs to stay out of it.




Sounds like gloves off time Sadie, sadly does it need to be taken to a more formal level? Horrible and annoying for you and Bill.
ReplyDeleteKitchen looks amazing, great taste, great look.
take care xx
It is Agatha, something is going to be done. She's not going to get away with her war against us. All we did was update the kitchen, nothing to do with her in any way, shape or form. I'll show pics of the garden changes we made purely to take away her vindictive behaviour, the woman is totally deranged. I've had Violet tell me she's scared in case she gets attacked by her, and to be honest I undertstand where she's coming from because she is unhinged. No other way to describe her.
DeleteI have a plan. And while I don't want to waste police time on something as ridiculous as her, if it comes to that then so be it. Not putting up with her bullying us in our own home because she's a miserable arse.
Thank you. The kitchen is pretty, we love it. x
Your kitchen looks absolutely beautiful Sadie. H x
ReplyDeletethat's kind Helen, thank you.
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